The Art of Conversation with Paul Holdengräber

Paul Holdengraber, a renowned figure who has had conversations with some of the most influential figures of our times, discusses his unique approach and the pains and pleasures of life as a conversationalist. 
Andrea and Paul explore the profound impact of the art of conversation on forming deep connections. They also delve into Paul's background, influences, and the unpredictable paths life has taken him, from his parents' escape from the Nazis to his own philosophical and geographical journeys. Paul opens up about his recent jobless status, his reflections on care, conversation, and the power of listening, as well as contemplating the future in a rapidly changing world. Throughout, the discussion explores themes of transience, the creation of spaces for dialogue, and the importance of remaining open to the myriad possibilities life offers. The conversation weaves together topics such as the significance of digression, the therapeutic power of reminiscing on familial history, and the complexities of identity and human relationships.
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00:00 Welcome to the Library: A Night of Conversation
00:29 Paul Holdengraber: A Man of Many Conversations
00:59 Exploring the New York Public Library with Paul
02:27 The Art and Power of Conversation
02:56 Paul's Unique Path: From Philosophy to Public Programming
05:12 Digression as a Form of Revelation
10:59 Returning to Roots: Conversations on Identity and Place
17:16 The Solitary Journey of a Conversationalist
22:16 Navigating Friendships and the Fear of Intimacy
26:42 Creating Landscapes of Conversation
32:03 From Hitchhiking to Hosting Influential Conversations
36:17 Unveiling the Art of Conversation and Personal Insights
37:40 Exploring Fame, Influence, and Personal Connections
38:56 The Craft of Creating Meaningful Conversations
40:26 Personal Reflections and Family Dynamics
52:09 The Power of Listening and the Art of Interviewing
59:26 Navigating Life's Transitions and Future Uncertainties
01:06:09 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Community Support
01:09:46 Contemplating New Beginnings and Creative Outlets

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